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December 24, 2008 FEAR NOT!
What would you say is the most powerful force in the world?
What power has the greatest ability to change,
transform, shape and even control a human life more than any other
power? I know what I
would say, and I have a pretty good idea what you probably think
I am going to say, especially since it is Christmas Eve.
You probably expect me to say LOVE.
I’ll get to love in a moment, but before I get to love, I
believe there is another force that is almost as powerful.
If you are a cynic you would say it is more powerful -
perhaps the most powerful force in the world.
I am not a cynic so I won’t say that.
It’s a force and a power that is running loose in the world,
at times out of control, wreaking its havoc, distorting and
disfiguring human life and relationships wherever it exerts its dark
influence – and it is called FEAR.
We learn fear at a very young age.
We are taught and even brainwashed into being afraid so much,
and the insidious thing about fear is its consequences.
Fear has consequences – often dire consequences.
In November I attended our synod youth gathering in Estes Park with
a group of our youth.
The theme of the Youth Gathering was
"Fear
Not!" We
spent the weekend looking at fear and how fear manifests itself in
our lives and in our relationships.
In the small groups I was a part of the biggest fear I
heard repeatedly expressed by our teenaged youth was
"judgment of their peers"
– the fear of rejection.
The
consequence
of the fear of rejection is
conformity
- to conform
becomes paramount above everything else.
And if the fear of rejection is big enough and strong enough
and powerful enough then
conformity supersedes everything: supersedes right and
wrong; good and bad; moral and immoral.
I gave a book to a friend of mine to read that I thought my friend
might enjoy. My friend
looked at the book and said,
“I am afraid to read it.”
“Why,”
I asked. My friend
said, “If I read it I
might have to change my mind about some things and that frightens
me.” Fear
of change – the consequence is stagnation, lack of growth,
intellectual blindness and rigidity.
Fear has consequences, and fear always distorts our perceptions
of reality. Afraid
of failure - consequence: Don’t take a risk.
Afraid to trust – consequence:
withhold yourself.
What are you afraid of, and what shape do the consequences of your
fear take in your life?
What are you afraid of:
Death?
Disability?
Illness?
Cancer?
Immigrants?
Homosexuals?
Being wrong?
Going to Hell? Muslims?
Terrorism?
Foreigners?
Being alone?
Growing old?
Unemployment? What are you afraid of and
what are the consequences of your fear?
Are you fearful to even acknowledge that you are afraid?
Matthew and Luke give us two very different versions of the
Christmas story, but both stories have
one thing in common.
They are told not to fear.
Joseph is told not to fear in Matthew’s version and Mary is
told not to fear in Luke’s version.
As a matter of fact, “Do not be afraid!"
is one of the most common and repeated mandates in the Bible.
Over and over again we hear the mandate, “Do not be afraid!”
At the beginning of the Bible, God puts the finger on Abraham and
calls Abraham and Sarah to a whole new way of life, with the words,
"Do not be afraid!"
In Exodus, the people of God were fleeing the slavery of Egypt.
Pharaoh, having second thoughts, sent his army after them. Caught
between the sea on one side and Pharaoh's vicious advancing army on
the other, Moses stands up and says to a panicking people, "Do not
be afraid!"
Youthful Jeremiah, shaking in his shoes, terrified at the prospect
of being called by God to be God's spokesperson to a cantankerous
people somehow hears the Lord say, "Do not be afraid!"
Peter, suddenly feeling totally inadequate in the presence of Jesus,
falls to his knees in fear, and Jesus gently assures him by picking
him up with the words, "Do not be afraid!"
Fussing about the importance of material things, Jesus talks to his
disciples about the life-style he intends for them, that is people
who don't put all their trust in material abundance and security.
Seeing the look of anxiety on their faces Jesus says, perhaps with a
wry smile, "Do not be afraid!"
Facing the inevitability of his death, Jesus is telling his
disciples that he will soon be gone from their midst but assures
them with the words, "Do not be afraid!"
Now fear isn't all bad!
We know that. There is such a thing as healthy fear. There
are a lot of things to fear in the kind of world we live in –
BUT - it’s in the
nature of fear to want to take over - to dominate -
to strangulate - to manipulate - and we so often
capitulate - and in so doing we lose
our freedom, become closed within ourselves and we fail to realize
our true human potential – and most significantly
we give up on LOVE.
The one thing
that can put up an almost impenetrable barrier keeping God's
life-giving Spirit out; blocking God’s love from flowing into our
lives is FEAR! Fear has that kind of awesome power! Fear has the
power to stifle a human life. Fear
has the negative energy to keep you from living fully in the
present. Fear has the power
to lock you up within yourself and throw away the key!
How many human dreams have died unrealized in the ashes of fear? How
many of yours?
How many broken relationships have never been mended because of the
power of fear? How many of yours?
How much forgiveness has never been asked for, and how much
forgiveness has ever been put on ice all because of fear? How much
with you?
How much pain has been inflicted because of fear? How much pain has
not been comforted all because of fear? How much with you?
How much prejudice has been passed from one generation to the next
through the vehicle of fear?
How much social injustice has continued unabated because of fear?
How much compassion has been withheld because of fear?
Tonight we are celebrating the
birth of Jesus.
In Galatians Paul said, he was
“born of a woman.”
That’s Paul’s way of saying he was just like you and me.
He was a human being.
There was nothing about him that gave him an advantage over
anybody else, because if he had an advantage his life would not be
credible. That’s what
makes his life so
remarkable – the most remarkable life ever lived –
because he lived it without any advantage and he lived it
without being controlled
by fear. When we
follow Jesus through
the gospels we see a most remarkable thing - that time and time
again he reached through
boundaries of fear that were
impassible barriers
for everyone else – forbidden religious barriers; ethnic barriers;
racial barriers; gender barriers; economic barriers; social barriers
- the most formidable barriers of his time.
Why? How?
Because the life of Jesus, the most remarkable life ever
lived, was characterized and shaped by the
LOVE of God.
His was a life devoid of fear and full of the love of God. Tonight we celebrate the little life that lays in the manger for the person he grew to be – a life full of God’s love – love that casts out all fear - and it’s a gift that God through Jesus Christ desires for you and me to have as our own and to live as our own above all else. If the world is to ever be a place with little or no fear, it begins with the lives I am looking at in this room tonight, as we by grace through faith, choose, not fear, but the love that emerged in the life we are celebrating tonight. Merry Christmas! |